LaDorris T
@beingelletea · 5:00
Not relying on others for your basic needs
And I have been in that space where I did not want to put the person that I had a child with on child support. And so I tried to work with them for years to support a child right after a breakup. I don't understand that. Sometimes after a breakup, the person thinks that the money is for you. The money is not for the adult, the money is for the child. If it goes to allocate towards some of the bills, then so be it
LaDorris T
@beingelletea · 4:20
There are times that I've become frustrated. It can be challenging to do it alone, especially when outside of basic needs, children have other needs. If your child wants to participate in activities that requires money as well, if your child wants to go out and participate in other things outside of sports and activities, it's all on you. If your child wants to travel, or if the child has any dreams that they want to accomplish, it's all on you