Hello. Okay, so this is my first well and I'm in my mid thirty s and you know, I understand that 20s are all about dating and then you don't know whom to date. You meet a bunch of bad boys, you feel like, okay, you've got to take yourself out of the race and you meet some good ones, but they don't last
Aishani Chatterjee
@Aishani · 4:12
That's something that has intrigued me as well, because so many of my friends have seen them, that initially, in the initial phase of dating, it was a very mutual thing, right, where the guy was extremely attractive, the guy wanted to do this, wanted to do that. And of course they also reciprocated because they of course liked the guy. But a couple of months down the line, the guy isn't the same
Dharmin Chanda
@bombayblues · 4:46
In fact, in my opinion, I'd like to believe that any sort of dating or any sort of relationship that we tend to get into, to me, I'm just sharing my own perspective about it. I believe that it's about how dearly one wants to be with the significant other
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
If your heart says no, step back. If your heart says shallow, let's let's go on a drive. Go on a drive. So this is something which is very learningful event for you. And this, remember, this 20s day is not going to come back. Ask me, I'm in my early 30s. So your friends are going to go away those friendships and they'll be getting married, having kids and everything. This is going to happen
The energy levels soaring, dipping, dying high, whatever it be. So that's the same about relations. You meet someone with destiny, with timelines, with whatever, then you start liking, you start spending more time, you start interacting, then you start seeing the good, bad, ugly, and then take your own call. So life is all about this. It be it profession, be it life, be it anything and more
Most of the relationships that I have been in, we kind of ventured into it directly. I think the whole concept of dating now is a more evolved concept that I think I'm coming to terms with. I had to Google what exactly dating meant, but I think as an update, I think emotional unavailability is possibly right. But as an update, he's still in my life. We speak as often as we can. He's a genuinely great person
The person still is in my life, I have great regard for people who invest and are good human beings at the end of the day. And of course, I'm ever so grateful to always meeting good people. But also, at the same time, dating is a human necessity, right. I think to procreate and to have companionship, it is a biological need
Yeah. Thanks for the reply, Anna. I love challenging. So when you channelize somebody and challenge him or her to causes or the reasons of generalization deletion and all these things you find the happy state and the answer in life. Good that you've understood. Yeah. Men detach or, you know, fall back or take a step back. According to whom? According to you? According to few of them who met you. Yes. All aren't the same
